Otherwise, he's just going to keep throwing it up in your face. This is obviously the wrong forum to post in, but I figured I'd get the most views here. Yeah I agree with you here. Review the wiki links below for the rules, FAQ and announcements before posting or commenting. I am no longer angry with her but the trust was completely broken. But I dont think thats really the avenue to pursue here. "because im in love with you, you stupid stupid girl". That happened more than once. He just wanted to bully and intimidate me. Paid a visit to her parents, because it was christmas. Answered in 9 minutes by: I tell her that I gave her the best of me, but I completely changed my lifestyle. .s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);padding-top:5px}.s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f._19JhaP1slDQqu2XgT3vVS0{color:#ea0027} I've read a lot of your posts though kid, so I know you know that. We have a lot of mutual friends and maybe that's her way of moving on. ._3bX7W3J0lU78fp7cayvNxx{max-width:208px;text-align:center} Now I do and its partially because of the break up(got a great new job) so here I am. but it was more of her testing out a guy to see if she liked him before she broke up with me kinda deal. At this point, my shield that I put up when she came through the door was slowly starting to fade. I think we both have issues to deal with. Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Everytime I tell him the truth he says im lying. That's all I'm getting from thisor else there is a huge chunk of info you dont have (like maybe her rebound guy or ex or whoever dumped her). By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. He is still clearly in love with you but very confused and hurt. I pretty much let it go this morning and feel back to normal now. I don't like unexpected visitors anyway, but an ex??? I have not spoken to my husbands ex in over 2 years. He didn't and was using her). He told her it was inappropriate for her to show up unannounced since hes not the only person who lives there but she doesnt see anything wrong with it. Is he interested or did I misunderstand the situation.. TikTok mom who got 'dumped' while pregnant shares how Tinder date became her fianc. Tell me thats not confuisng? Personally, the unannounced showing up of an ex is UNFORGIVEABLE. I don't want anyone showing up at my house at 7am unannounced, especially my ex. Turns out he left. If he contacts you again, talk over the phone. And I told her straight up that I don't even know her anymore, I'm sketpical, and that I don't trust her. it doesnt matter I still love her and i understand why she did it. He insists that we promised eachother but all I remember is him saying he did not want a relationship. He was busy taking care of a sick child and not at his phone and HCBM decided it was a good idea to drive to our house because she was worried with her own mother in tow as a witness I assume all because she didnt get an update for a few hours. Id be calling whoever I knew he was with if it were me. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. It probably isn't a good idea if she was the one who broke it off. Ex's don't like surprises, if that is what you are planning. She never realize how well I treated her until I was gone. Apply here if you are interested in joining the team! Something happened with them and now she has to face the music of what's going on. The trust is completely broken, it will take him a long time to get over this. Read More >, This has never happened in our family before. 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OK, often "sorry" is just short for "Ha ha, I screwed you over and there's nothing you can do about it. DH has explained that if BM were to show up unannounced, I am to take the kids, hide in the closet where his pistol is stored, call the police, and if she breaches the thresh-hold, to shoot. By Reply . she rarely smoked cigarettes but in those 3 weeks I saw that she had smoked a lot of cigarettes. Me: Look you're not over it..you told me that last night and I can just tell..I honestly don't even know you anymore..I'm out all of the time now..If you see me out, come say hi and we'll see what happens. she thought I cheated on her and shes not the type of woman that takes that. toughlove1993 He doesnt have to confirm he is picking her up on his court ordered days. Im really worried about him. Sometimes it's genuine, sometimes it's a form of gloating. Who came up with this agreement? Unannouncedvisits are very common in cases with extreme or violent allegations. You may have screwed up, but he's going to be using this excuse to bully you. The break up was due to you sleeping with someone else very early on in your relationship when you were not exclusive, right? He has your ex things in his house and someone else apart from you and him knows.. His ex girlfriend also knows and she hasnt picked If you ever loved your ex boyfriend/girlfriend and want to get him/her back then this book recommendation can be your ticket to restore what was lost. Started Saturday at 09:38 PM, By Personally, the unannounced showing up of an ex is UNFORGIVEABLE. Indeed any kind of unannouced showing up is bad enough, but an ex doing it is truly messed up Yeah, I was Very worried. If you are unsure of your rights, you should consult an experienced real estate lawyer in your area. Keep strong and don't expect anything. She said our relationship was good for people who were a bit older, but not for college kids, which I agreed with her on. I did enable her too though, so it's not totally her fault. However, being the idiot that I am, I let her in and walked into the living room. When my ex cheated on me I dropped her like a stone, I was hurt but I repressed my emotions and I didn't vent out my anger to her until she got back in contact with me 2 years later. Do you think he will ever want me back if I continue to give him space? 8 ) /cheers and stay strong by your belives. Manage Settings The Coolest Part About Jealousy That You NEVER Realized, TikTok mom Jac Woodwell (@jacquelinewoodwell) shared the moving story of meeting her now-fianc on Tinder after the father of her child dumped her while she was pregnant. Ya don't tell her. Or you'll have her really messing with your emotions. My ex showed up once years ago after I started dating another girl. That w Just imagine if you were dating someone. .ehsOqYO6dxn_Pf9Dzwu37{margin-top:0;overflow:visible}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu{height:24px}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu{border-radius:2px}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu:focus,._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu:hover{background-color:var(--newRedditTheme-navIconFaded10);outline:none}._38GxRFSqSC-Z2VLi5Xzkjy{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._2DO72U0b_6CUw3msKGrnnT{border-top:none;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);cursor:pointer;padding:8px 16px 8px 8px;text-transform:none}._2DO72U0b_6CUw3msKGrnnT:hover{background-color:#0079d3;border:none;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-body)} Who knows. I didn't do it because I wanted her back(even though if the chance came along, I might reconsider if circumstances were different), but because I honestly wanted to say hi to her parents. You're moving on with the grieving and healing process while your ex hasn't. Not as much though, so getting better. As of now we live on an emotional connection between the two weeks later the same school and doesn't make me reconsider our relationship, with out him. I was told that he kept telling her that he didn't want to be with her and she wasn't taking the hint and continued to hang out with him. We need you to help us with these comments by reporting them when you see them. I kept saying to her, So that's it? Stalks the house, finds doors locked, calls, comes by unannounced, multiple times per day, dont care what, when, how or who. should applaud her she got balls. After all, we were together for 4 years. "He was my everything"I hope that is just an expression. Why does my boyfriend keep his exs things in his house? 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